I listen to so many girls bitch and moan about how hard their relationship is and how unhappy they are and how much their boyfriend is a jerk.
And I always wonder: WHY THE FUCK DO YOU PUT UP WITH IT THEN?
That's not how a relationship is supposed to feel. If it's hard then WORK SOMETHING OUT! And if you can't then it's not meant to be, clearly. If you're unhappy then find a way to be happy, and if you can't dump the person. And if he's a jerk, either call him out and he'll change or DUMP HIM.
When a relationship is right, then it will FEEL right. You won't have to check his phone, because you can trust him. You won't have to worry that he's off fucking some chick at night, because you can trust him. You won't be stressed when he doesn't call, because you know how he feels about you. When two people are in love, there shouldn't be a DOUBT in your mind about him/her.
I'm not saying there won't be hard times with two people who love each other. My parents are examples of that. They argue and have "I can clean more than you today" fights, but I don't know if you realize this but IT'S A CLEANING FIGHT.
If you can't trust him, then dump him. If you don't feel comfortable, dump him. If you HATE each other, DUMP him. Got it?
Item #2
Guys can be jerks but SO CAN GIRLS. I listen to people bitch and moan about how ALL boys are terrible and jerks and only want sex. Well I know girls that are like that too. It goes both ways...haha.
"Why do I attract all the jerks?" Are you fucking kidding? Why do you date only jerks? I bet if you're attracting jerks, then you're probably attracting nice guys. It's your choice who you date, not anybody else's. If you don't like Mr. Nice Guy over there, don't complain about how you only attract jerks. You have your part in that too. Okay?
I just can't stand when girls bitch about how "If a girl sleeps around she's a slut, but what do guys get? A high five." You know...that's a huge fucking stereotype. And then they get girls calling him a player and then he can't sleep around much and then he actually falls for a girl and has a hard time getting her because all the girls gathered around and talked up a storm about how shitty that guy is to girls. The girl is called a slut by OTHER GIRLS. Guys don't fucking care...unless she's got an STD. Stop acting like guys have it so fucking easy. They don't. And I see that. And I'm a girl.
And then the fucking statuses or S[he] be[li]ev[ed] crap. OHMMGEE stop it right now! I'm FUCKING positive that GUYS have had their hearts broken too. Jeeeeesh. I can't even take it anymore. I might blow the fuck up at the next bitch that posts a fucking status like that.
I am a hopeless romantic, don't get me wrong. But people always bitching about people they supposedly love, pisses me off. Because if you really love that person, it shouldn't be hard to be together. It might seem like the world is against you sometimes but remember this: All Values, from zero to infinity, are less than love. -My favorite damn quote.
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